Sunday, April 4, 2010

When Enough Is Enough...And When Barely Anything Shouldn't Matter

7 comments:

Pandora's Aquarium said...

oh my god, Tianna, how horrible! What a stinking nightmare. The good thing is, Frued was up front about his shortcomings. I mean that, he could have hurt you so much more if he waited to show his shallow side. Faux makes me sick to my stomach, I can't imagine how you felt. Just can NOT imagine. Our coffee maker died this morning so I can only hope I'm making sense and getting thru how bad I feel for you having to deal with such unsavory business. Why would anyone treat you like that??? You're such a wonderful and awesome person. You deserve so much better. Love you!

Anonymous said...

I'm reading this,laughing because I can see your face as all this is going down. Your so animated when I'm around you I can almost see what your thinking just from watching your face and body language. I'm sad for you to. Your such a trusting and loving person and I don't want you to ever stop being that way. A unique and special creature is what you are. We love you.
AP

Ha! I bet you didn't know that I read you every time you post something.

Mark Whitecotton said...

Well, I care about you, and believe that forgiveness doesn't mean that a person has to remain in your life. Wish I coulda been there as an ally.

Jen said...

After our brief talk last night and reading this today I have to think that he is scared. I know you believe otherwise but T anyone who doesn't get how special, loving, and gorgeous you are has to be dealing with some other issues. Do you think it was too much for him? Maybe he freaked out? We've known each other for 16 years and not once has a guy not come back to you. There is something about you that when you disappear for a spell the lightbulb goes off and they realize what a mistake they made. Give it time. You know how I feel about your other friend. It isn't worth it anymore. There are people in your life who would never consider putting you in an awkward situation.

PandorasInk said...

oh my god, Tianna, how horrible! What a stinking nightmare. The good thing is, Frued was up front about his shortcomings. I mean that, he could have hurt you so much more if he waited to show his shallow side. Faux makes me sick to my stomach, I can't imagine how you felt. Just can NOT imagine. Our coffee maker died this morning so I can only hope I'm making sense and getting thru how bad I feel for you having to deal with such unsavory business. Why would anyone treat you like that??? You're such a wonderful and awesome person. You deserve so much better. Love you!



Posted by PandorasInk to Parenting, Politics & Pillow Talk at April 5, 2010 4:34 AM

Anonymous said...

I'm reading this laughing because I can see your face as all this is going down. Your so animated when I'm around you I can almost see what your thinking just from watching your face and body language. I'm sad for you to. Your such a trusting and loving person and I don't want you to ever stop being that way. A unique and special creature is what you are. We love you.
AP

Ha! I bet you didn't know that I read you every time you post something.



Posted by Anonymous to Parenting, Politics & Pillow Talk at April 5, 2010 6:21 AM

JabberJaws said...

Thanks All ~ I wrote this so I could put things in perspective. Sometimes it's easier to see another person's view on things when it's in writing. Plus, I didn't want to have to tell the story to everyone, over and over again. It's too difficult for me to speak it. Like Jen said, I think Freud got a little overwhelmed. So, please don't think terribly of him. He's important to me!